The Stress-Free Guide to Settling Down in a New City

Moving to a brand new city can be stressful. If you are unfamiliar with the area and don’t know anyone, it can feel overwhelming and even scary. However, things don’t have to be so intimidating. There are certain things you can do to make your transition to your new city much easier, even if you don’t have a friend or significant other with you. Here are the best ways to settle into your new city.

Take a Long Walk Around the Neighborhood

One of the best ways to acclimate yourself to a new city is to go outside and walk around. Do exactly what the locals do and just walk around, embracing all the sights around you. It will help you to discover where certain stores and restaurants are located. If there is a farmers’ market, walk through it and do a little shopping. Locate other landmarks like parks, malls and movie theaters. While you do your walkabout, you can even meet people by starting up conversations. Ask questions when you see the opportunity to do so.

Look Toward Social Media

Get on Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram or other social media pages you’re on and get in touch with people who may be located in your new area. It can be quite surprising to see that there may be a few people you’re connected with on social media living right in your new city. It’s the perfect opportunity to meet up with them as a great way to settle into the new place. You can also ask your friends to set you up on friend meets or dates with people living in your new city.

Use Online Resources

Get online and use some resources from the Internet to help ease the stress of your move. Rely on resources such as Google Maps or Loc8NearMe to find places that are near your new home. You can more easily find stores, restaurants, banks and places to hang out.  Reading reviews can also be extremely helpful and save both your time and money.

Join a Group in the City

There are many types of groups and clubs you can join within your new city. Find something you enjoy, a hobby, and go from there. For example, if you’re a bowler and there is a bowling alley in the area, visit it and check out bowling leagues you can join. You can also offer your services as a volunteer for something that involves helping people or animals. These are a couple of ideas that make it easy to meet new people, something important when you have relocated to a new city because they make your transition smoother.

Give Yourself Time

There will no doubt be times when you feel unsure about your move to your new city. You will probably start thinking that it was a huge mistake to move and will feel overwhelmed and stressed out. This is perfectly normal. However, it’s important to remember that transitioning to a new city takes time. You won’t feel comfortable about your move until at least a year has passed. Be sure to give yourself a full year before you make any real judgments about the move. Keep acclimating yourself to the area by exploring on your own or with a new friend you’ve made in the area and you will gradually feel more comfortable.

It’s never easy when you pick up and move to a new city. Everything is unfamiliar and you may not know many, if any, of the locals. However, when you use these tips for settling in, you will be surprised at how much easier a time you have once you are in your new area.

Adam Richards

About Adam Richards

Adam Richards is a semi-retired business professional originally from Bangor, Maine. He spent the majority of his career in sales and marketing where he rose to the marketing lead of a Fortune 1000 company. He then moved on to helping people as a career counselor that specifically helped bring families to self-sufficiency through finding them rewarding careers. He has now returned to Bangor for his retirement and spends his free time writing. This blog will be about everything he learned throughout his career. He'll write on career, workplace, education and technology issues as well as on trends, changes, and advice for the Maine job market and its employers.